Conflict of the heart and mind will make you incapable of making decisions, create frustration and tension, and most likely have you lashing out. Conflict of the mind and heart have taken a toll on me and it is causing me to be counterproductive, disorganized, and stressed. I don’t need that kind of energy… Continue reading When the Heart & Mind Are In A Tug-of-War…
Don’t be a slave to “LOVE” or your emotions. Be rational in how you ALLOW people to interact with you; let emotions take a backseat to the journey. I’ve come to learn that the more emotion you expose too soon, the more people will know how to hurt you. The easiest way to move on is to take time for yourself. Continue reading Are They Worth Missing?
Tired of the same old same when it comes to Taco Tuesday? I have a recipe for you! Meat: 1lb – Ground Beef or Ground Turkey Produce: 1 Small – Chopped Tomato (optional) Condiments: 1 Cup – Mild Salsa Pasta & Grains: 8 Oz. – Rotini Pasta Spices: 1/2 tsp – Black Pepper 1/2 tsp Salt 1 Oz Pack – Taco Seasoning I used one … Continue reading One-Pot Taco Pasta
The people who love you and care for you the most will understand how important this is; if not, explain it to them. Your need to recharge is not only good for you, but really good for the people around you, as well. Alone time is necessary for peace, maturity, and growth. Continue reading Why Social Recharge is Necessary..
Sometimes the smallest events or things from our past can remind us of the good in ourselves. I never forgot that I was and am a good woman. Because, that is who I am naturally.. but sometimes people who spent two split seconds with you and have ill intentions will try to treat you like crap, then project that nastiness onto you and blame you for their shortcomings, when all you were doing is NOT settling all along. Continue reading I Forgot Who the *Bleep* I Was…
I’ve come to realize that all of the taboo things come from people and their lack of understanding, miseducation, and their fears create these “rules” of ways to live. We are all individuals with personalities like fingerprints, everyone has a different one. If God created you to be a free spirit, be that! If God created you to be a leader, be that! God will assure you of the way He wants you to live; those personal convictions you feel, that’s God in your conscience telling you what’s right and wrong. Don’t ignore those, but don’t project them on to anyone else. Continue reading Live Your Life!
First of all, let’s not pretend that it’s going to be easy to do. There are urges, there will be tempting situations (especially when you two are alone), and there will be second guessing about the decision itself. Celibacy is not something you just turn on, just for the sake of saying you are celibate; it requires real commitment. It is one of the hardest things to commit to in life. Continue reading Why Celibacy Could Be Good For Your Relationship