Don’t be a slave to “LOVE” or your emotions. Be rational in how you ALLOW people to interact with you; let emotions take a backseat to the journey. I’ve come to learn that the more emotion you expose too soon, the more people will know how to hurt you. The easiest way to move on is to take time for yourself. Continue reading Are They Worth Missing?
First of all, let’s not pretend that it’s going to be easy to do. There are urges, there will be tempting situations (especially when you two are alone), and there will be second guessing about the decision itself. Celibacy is not something you just turn on, just for the sake of saying you are celibate; it requires real commitment. It is one of the hardest things to commit to in life. Continue reading Why Celibacy Could Be Good For Your Relationship
How many of us can honestly admit our flaws? How often do we take time to seek our flaws and work on them as much as we do with our strengths just to brag about them? Admitting your flaws to yourself can be one of the most hurtful things to do. At times, the rude awakening comes when someone we love points them out. When we see the ugliness of ourselves, we get defensive and think people are judging us. I’ve been guilty of this before; we all have. Continue reading Are You OK With Being Flawed?
Growing pains, those are never easy, but over time it got easier for me to let people go. I understand that as adults, we all have our own lives and must adapt. But one thing’s for sure, real friends never venture off too far.. Continue reading What Type of Friend Are You?
You are needed… You are valuable.. You are LOVED! I’ve got your back, just lead the way!! Continue reading Dear Black Man: (A Love Letter)
I just wanted to share some date ideas with you guys that I plan to start doing with potential suiters. As much as I enjoy good food, I think dinner dates can get boring and predictable; I also think that if dinner is the date… Continue reading Date Ideas Besides Dinner & Movies
I’m not saying that you need to be talking about marrying this new person at all.. What I am saying is that as adults, who are dating with purpose and not just to smash and dash, we should communicate exactly what we are looking for someday, not tomorrow… Continue reading The Taboos in Dating…