When the Heart & Mind Are In A Tug-of-War…

Conflict of the heart and mind will make you incapable of making decisions, create frustration and tension, and most likely have you lashing out. Conflict of the mind and heart have taken a toll on me and it is causing me to be counterproductive, disorganized, and stressed. I don’t need that kind of energy… Continue reading When the Heart & Mind Are In A Tug-of-War…

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I Forgot Who the *Bleep* I Was…

Sometimes the smallest events or things from our past can remind us of the good in ourselves. I never forgot that I was and am a good woman. Because, that is who I am naturally.. but sometimes people who spent two split seconds with you and have ill intentions will try to treat you like crap, then project that nastiness onto you and blame you for their shortcomings, when all you were doing is NOT settling all along.  Continue reading I Forgot Who the *Bleep* I Was…

Why Celibacy Could Be Good For Your Relationship

First of all, let’s not pretend that it’s going to be easy to do. There are urges, there will be tempting situations (especially when you two are alone), and there will be second guessing about the decision itself. Celibacy is not something you just turn on, just for the sake of saying you are celibate; it requires real commitment. It is one of the hardest things to commit to in life. Continue reading Why Celibacy Could Be Good For Your Relationship

What It Means to Be A “Cry Baby”..

Growing up, I was really sensitive.. I cried easily, so I eventually built a wall up to protect myself that eventually got me known as a “mean girl.” People had no idea that I was just really sensitive because I got really good at hiding it, but I’d go home and cry, a lot. The emotions got the best of me, so eventually, I just learned to hide my feelings and let things build up until I exploded with frustration, no longer tears. Continue reading What It Means to Be A “Cry Baby”..